Friday, May 14, 2010

How To Attract Girls

Knowing how to attract girls is the single most significant thing you can do right now to enhance your dating life.

Every Saturday night, countless guys around the planet, from New Jersey to China, splash on their cologne and head to the popular pickup spots in the hopes of finding a girl. Of course, they might act like they're only stepping out for a few drinks with their friends, but loads of them are actually hoping to get lucky tonight with a .

And that's where they make their first error: viewing their mission tonight in terms of "getting lucky." A lot of men really believe that scoring with a girl at a bar is about luck, fate, or happening to be in the right place at the perfect time.

Guys like these don't understand that when it comes to how to approach women, there are some "classic errors" that guys make on a regular basis -- tarnishing their chances without even realizing it -- and that there are dependable STRATEGIES you can use to just about guarantee strong results.

In the view of one guy, "success" might mean having a conversation with a cool girl and going home with her phone number. For guys who've mastered the "game" of pickup, success is defined differently. Ask them about how to approach women, and they'll say that anything less than a "same night lay" -- bringing a stunner home with them TONIGHT -- is a waste of a night.

Of course, the predicament is that more than 90% of guys have no idea how to attract girls. The reality is, they are too intimidated to approach women because of the large amount of UNCERTAINTY involved.

Think about it. What races through your thoughts when you notice a girl at a nightclub that you would love to approach? You might be thinking something like...

"A girl who is that pretty must already have a boyfriend."
"A guy like me isn't her type."
"She doesn't look like she's in the mood to be approached."

And then of course, there's the timeless male excuse...

"I want to move toward that girl, but I have no idea what to say!"

In this situation, what's happeningis that you are merely imagining the possible NEGATIVE outcomes. This is because you've trained yourself to think that the most likely conclusion, when you aim to approach women, is that women will ignore you or simply won't be interested.

And so of course, for men who have no idea how to approach women, this often becomes the conclusion. After suffering through this awkward process dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these men stop trying to talk to girls altogether.

This type of guy will think , "why should I even try? She's simply going to react the way the last 46 girls did. She won't be interested for whatever reason, and then I'll have to endure the humiliation of retreating and feeling like a reject."

I'm here to tell you that you can be taught how to approach women in a way that is confident, playful and most of all STRATEGIC. We've got some very cool, specific "openers" you can make use of with hot chicks that will make them smile, and engage their interest.

We've tested each of these powerful approach tactics out in the field THOUSANDS of times, to make sure these are the very BEST ways to "break the ice" and initiate an interaction.

Women WON'T see you as some clumsy, insecure dude who is hoping to NOT get dissed. Rather, women will instantly feel that you're a guy who can add MORE FUN to their night.

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