Can The Perfect Pick Up Line Get You Laid?

When you talk about picking up girls, a lot of guys assume this involves using a "pickup line" to approach women and try to start a conversation.

Before I give you pick up lines to use on girls, I want to say that walking up to random women and trying to start conversations is a tough thing to do for most guys. I understand that. It requires confidence, and the ability to be a smooth talker, to approach women, engage them in a friendly, interesting conversation, and get their phone number. If this is something that you're not used to doing, then the process can be intimidating, and I know exactly how you feel.

To have success with women, you first have to get one, and that starts with approaching them. Approaching women is something that most men are afraid of. . If you feel nervous, shy or even hesitant to approach women, then I suggest you start learning some specific techniques to help you approach women without hesitation or fear.

What you must know is that your fear of rejection can be overcome, and it can be overcome simply and easily. If one of the reasons you're scared of approaching women is the fact that things can go wrong, then guess what? That's life, and things do go wrong! It doesn't matter though. All that matters is that you harness the energy and power to walk up to a woman and introduce yourself.

One thing that you can do to help out with approaching women is practice in the mirror. Talking to yourself in the mirror will allow you to see how you look and to build up the confidence you need to approach someone. If you can first be comfortable with yourself, then you will more than likely be comfortable with talking with a woman too.

I'm sure you've heard of men approaching women and seducing them instantly. I don't recommend trying this as this is the fastest way to get a drink thrown into your face. But when you do approach a woman, you need to have no fear of rejection. Not being intimated of rejection is a skill that you need to develop, and you can begin by walking up to women and asking them a simple question.

I suggest taking some "batting practice" -- approach some random women and ask them a sincere question. Your question could be if they know what time it is or if they know where the nearest Burger king is. This will help you to get into the habit of naturally approaching women so when the time comes to ask a woman for her phone number, it won't be as hard to do.

Your chances of succeeding with women are going to skyrocket if you can get past your "approach anxiety" and fear of rejection. When practicing what I suggested above, you should only practice walking up to beautiful women. You can walk up to any girl and ask her where the nearest mall or supermarket is. You'd be amazed at the responses and some of these women will even start up conversations with you!

You should do whatever it takes to not be intimidated by women. Work on building up your confidence by talking to yourself in the mirror and getting comfortable with who you are. Note: Our free guide to approaching women is only available for a limited time, so be sure to download your copy now.

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Do corny or cute pick up lines in fact work? When you visualize a guy using pick up lines, you probably picture some slimy wanna-be Casanova, his shirt unbuttoned to reveal a gold chain and a furry chest. He's prowling the bar or club, ready to approach women, his beady eyes scanning the room for his next target.

He goes to approach the girl...looks her up and down, like a hungry predator eyeballing a slab of meat...and delivers a crude pick up line that causes her to roll her eyes (or throw her cocktail in his face).

It might be a pick up line like one of these...

"You'd better know CPR, baby, because you are taking my breath away."

"Would you mind loaning me a quarter? [What for?] I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the woman of my dreams."

"Do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes."

"Are you religious? Cause you are the answers to all my prayers."

"You owe me a drink, miss. [Why?] Because the moment I saw you, I dropped mine."

"I'm new in town -- could you give me directions to your apartment?"

"If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together."

"Your legs must be tired because you've been running through my mind all night."

"Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?"

"I was so mesmerized by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there...I'm going to need your name and number for insurance purposes."

You actually CAN use a funny pick up line to approach a lot of women, and not all of them are that lame. I'll give you a few examples of cute pick up lines that I've successfully used to approach women. The "trick" is to follow them up with something more clever (I'll give you some of these "transitions" in a minute).

"Would you touch me so I can tell my friends I've been touched by an angel?"

"Do you know karate? Because your body is really kickin'."

"What does it feel like to be the cutest girl in the room?"

"You must be a hell of a thief, because you stole my heart from across the room."

(Note: Don't use this pick up line on women who are extremely attractive and KNOW it. This one is effective on a girl who is attractive, but is clearly NOT the best-looking girl in the place.)

And then, there's another category of pick up lines some guys use when they approach women. I call these...

Pick Up Lines That Could Get You Slapped In The Face

Use this last category of pick up lines with extreme caution. While they might get a good reaction (specifically if she's a drunken nymphomaniac), you're equally likely to get hit. (Or if she has a steroid-crazed boyfriend lurking nearby.) Use them with caution...

"Do you know what has 142 teeth and holds back the Incredible Hulk? [What?] My zipper."

"Your daddy must play the trumpet, because he sure made me horny!"

"Is that a keg in your pants? Because I'd love to tap that ass."

The Reality About Using Pick Up Lines To Approach Girls

So are pick up lines something to be ridiculed? Do successful pickup artists ever use them to approach women and start conversations? I've written several popular books on how to pick up women, which teach many different practical approaches to starting conversations with girls. I personally feel that if you're learning how to approach women, using pick up lines is NOT the way to go.

I normally recommend that you use the "under the radar" style of opening conversations. This means you use a clever, unexpected comment or question to get her interest and engage her in the interaction without telegraphing that you like her. Essentially, you're "breaking the ice" in a way that feels fun and non-threatening.

For example, when you approach a woman you might ask for her opinion on an unexpected topic -- one that women are of course going to have strong feelings about.

Opener #1: "Quick question -- would you allow your boyfriend to go to a bachelor party if you knew there were going to be strippers there? My friend Samantha asked me for my opinion."

Opener #2: "Hi, quick question -- I need your help to settle a debate. How long do you need to be dating someone before you change your status on Facebook from "single" to "in a relationship?" Because my friend Jennifer has been going out with a guy for a month and SHE thinks it's an exclusive thing, but he hasn't changed his "single" status and she's wondering if she should say something..."

These openers are particularly effective because they're based on what I call "relationship grey areas." Men and women tend to have their own ideas about what's allowed in a relationship, and what is unacceptable. Here's another line you can use when you approach women: "does it count as cheating if a guy has lunch with his ex-girlfriend, and doesn't tell his new girlfriend about it?"

The bottom line is, when you are approaching women a good opener is going to make her WANT to respond. And if you're a confident, playful guy, this one always gets a fun reaction:

"Do I look gay? Because this dude was TOTALLY flirting with me in the men's room a second ago. Do you think it's because of my shirt?" (Or, "is it the way my ass looks in these jeans?")

Those don't count as "pick up lines," really. But does this mean pick up lines are, by definition, a bad thing?

In some cases, I actually opened the conversation by using one of those cheesy pick up lines -- and because I was able to transition into a fun conversation, I was able to get the girl into bed that night!

I showed a sense of humor by "confessing" that I had used a corny line to try to pick her up. After saying it, I followed up with "I know that TOTALLY sounded like a pick up line...but I want to talk to you for a moment and I couldn't think of what else to say. By the way, you can call me Dean..."

At that point, I used my Mack Tactics -- I asked a few "strategic" questions to get her in a fun mindset, and sharing information about herself...I used tactics such as Teases, Hypotheticals and Cold Reads and throughout the conversation, I managed the flow and hit the right buttons to make her feel curiosity and attraction.

At times a really corny pick up line can be a FUN way to start things off. The key to making this work is understanding how to follow it with something clever that makes her want to talk to you.

Or, you can always use this:

"You're so beautiful that you totally made me forget my pick up line."

You can't put a price tag on a line like that!

However, before I tell you how to "seal the deal" with girls, please pay attention to this warning...

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How To Attract Girls

Knowing how to attract girls is the single most significant thing you can do right now to enhance your dating life.

Every Saturday night, countless guys around the planet, from New Jersey to China, splash on their cologne and head to the popular pickup spots in the hopes of finding a girl. Of course, they might act like they're only stepping out for a few drinks with their friends, but loads of them are actually hoping to get lucky tonight with a .

And that's where they make their first error: viewing their mission tonight in terms of "getting lucky." A lot of men really believe that scoring with a girl at a bar is about luck, fate, or happening to be in the right place at the perfect time.

Guys like these don't understand that when it comes to how to approach women, there are some "classic errors" that guys make on a regular basis -- tarnishing their chances without even realizing it -- and that there are dependable STRATEGIES you can use to just about guarantee strong results.

In the view of one guy, "success" might mean having a conversation with a cool girl and going home with her phone number. For guys who've mastered the "game" of pickup, success is defined differently. Ask them about how to approach women, and they'll say that anything less than a "same night lay" -- bringing a stunner home with them TONIGHT -- is a waste of a night.

Of course, the predicament is that more than 90% of guys have no idea how to attract girls. The reality is, they are too intimidated to approach women because of the large amount of UNCERTAINTY involved.

Think about it. What races through your thoughts when you notice a girl at a nightclub that you would love to approach? You might be thinking something like...

"A girl who is that pretty must already have a boyfriend."
"A guy like me isn't her type."
"She doesn't look like she's in the mood to be approached."

And then of course, there's the timeless male excuse...

"I want to move toward that girl, but I have no idea what to say!"

In this situation, what's happeningis that you are merely imagining the possible NEGATIVE outcomes. This is because you've trained yourself to think that the most likely conclusion, when you aim to approach women, is that women will ignore you or simply won't be interested.

And so of course, for men who have no idea how to approach women, this often becomes the conclusion. After suffering through this awkward process dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these men stop trying to talk to girls altogether.

This type of guy will think , "why should I even try? She's simply going to react the way the last 46 girls did. She won't be interested for whatever reason, and then I'll have to endure the humiliation of retreating and feeling like a reject."

I'm here to tell you that you can be taught how to approach women in a way that is confident, playful and most of all STRATEGIC. We've got some very cool, specific "openers" you can make use of with hot chicks that will make them smile, and engage their interest.

We've tested each of these powerful approach tactics out in the field THOUSANDS of times, to make sure these are the very BEST ways to "break the ice" and initiate an interaction.

Women WON'T see you as some clumsy, insecure dude who is hoping to NOT get dissed. Rather, women will instantly feel that you're a guy who can add MORE FUN to their night.

Tips For Meet Girls And Starting A Conversation

Over the course of my long career as a dating trainer, I've taught thousands of guys how to meet girls in all types of situations. A lot of my students have been extremely successful. I've seen shy students who were terrified to try to talk to women turn into "approach machines" who all of a sudden began to meet new women all the time (even while walking down the street!) -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!

It's been gratifying to watch extremely quiet students of mine, who were once scared to meet girls and clueless about how to approach women, transform into "approach machines" who could meet new women every day (even while simply walking down the street!) and continually score digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.

I'm not talking about an ordinary female here; I'm talking about a stone-cold stunner. You know, the kind of hottie who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the area to stop and look.

So what is the most effective way to approach a girl like THAT? The answer, actually, is quite easy: you use the same approach techniques that I advise you use with any woman, but after you use one of my "transition" moves to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to NEUTRALIZE her "hotness factor" and actually use it to your advantage.

What are Teases and Cold Reads? Well, they're two very powerful strategies that you should use when you flirt with women. Essentially, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their brains: that you are NOT an ordinary guy who is bowled over and taken aback by how gorgeous she may be.

When you tease a stunner (the RIGHT way), you're framing the encounter as if you are already familar and comfortable with her, which prompts her to feel the same way with you. When you're hanging out with someone you've known for a while, you're naturally going to tease and joke around with that person. And so, when you tease a scorching-hot stunner, you're planting the seed in her mind that you are totally relaxed with her. She doesn't "faze" you.

This is the opposite of how most men behave around a super hot girl. This dude can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so scared of saying the WRONG thing and messing it up!

As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a woman about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess.

A good Cold Read makes you seem to be amazingly perceptive and it immediately establishes a bond between you and the hottie. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a babe at the club, she's going to nod her head and agree with your assessment .

So, the encounter will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of subject. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads.

Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the subject and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)

And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most people get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you truly are."

(This Cold Read works especially well with stunning women, because they are often concerned that people are ONLY judging them based on their looks. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and would like to be recognized for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)

Honestly, it isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. When you merge these techinques with other effective conversational methods, you have the blueprint for a conversation that will trigger all of her "attraction buttons" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and from that point on, you'll be in charge of steering this wherever you want it to go.